For some people, language is not their only tool for communication. They communicate through their whole being. You don’t have to push yourself to listen to them. Listening to them doesn’t feel like a chore… It’s an instinct. To them to put a sentence together, the essence of it not only comes through the words. …
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There are some sentences that pierce your heart directly, even when they are accompanied with an, I am telling this with good intentions kind of wrapping. Those statements that start with Please don’t misunderstand me, but… And then go shrink you, belittle you, or bring the feeling of shame over you. So where is the actual problem? In …
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How “How Are You?” Can Be Used to Sneakily Enter Your Mind Once you are walking down the street and a person comes to you: “Sorry to bother you. How are you today? “ You give an answer as if you were on autopilot: “Fine, thank you.” To which the next sentence is: “Excellent. So, …